Understanding woman’s emotional
needs is probably one of the skills that a man should know. It doesn’t end up
in there while you were still in the courting stage. It’s not until you get
married but for a lifetime. In married life, it is a stage of life wherein you,
as a husband, need to deepen your understanding and find ways on how to show
your love to your wife. I mean, how to love your wife. Because men’s emotional
needs are different with women.
Here are some suggestions on how to
love your wife:
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Ways to Love Your Wife
1. Give her a hug and a kiss before getting
out of bed.
2. Smile when you look at her.
3. Call her during the day to say you miss
her.
4. Turn out the lights and eat dinner by
candlelight.
5. Play her favorite music and invite her
to cuddle up on the sofa while you listen
6. Ask about her day and how things went, (then
listen to her reply.)
7. Wash her back while she’s in the bath or
shower.
8. Dry her back when she leaves the bath or
shower.
9. Put a love note in her lunch or purse.
10. As a surprise, pick her up after work.
11. Tell her how much you enjoy talking with her.
12. Tell her, in front of your children, what a good mother she is.
13. Slip your arm around her as you sit together in church.
14. Ask her for a date to be enjoyed without the children.
15. Get up 10 minutes early and ask her to join you for a chat
while you sip a hot drink.
16. Before you fall asleep at night, wrap your arms around her and
whisper words of love.
17. Ask her opinion about the recent news report or sermon at
church.
18. Give her a hug for no reason at all.
19. Compliment her in front of a friend.
20. Use endearing words with her often.
21. When you are out socially, wink or blow a kiss to her.
· Excerpt from Highly Effective Marriage, by Nancy Van Pelt
If you apply these techniques, it will really add colors to your marriage life as what God really intends it to be, that marriage is a blessing.
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